Un-planning My Life
There are sides of us that we do not show in public. It's either we do it on purpose for a deep reason, or, maybe we're just not aware they exist. You know, like a blind spot. While there's a huge chance for our blind spots to turn out wonderfully inspiring, we also know deep down that sometimes, they are quite the contrary.
One big realization that dawned on me these past few months is that I freak out when I couldn't plan my life out. This is my blind spot that I don't particularly present generously to the public eye, plainly because I didn't realize it then, and I've still yet to understand my experience in a private space. I believe you understand, right?
You see, generally, I'm a spontaneous person. I've come to terms with being agreeable to changes. In fact, I've even created a photo album on my Facebook called 'Spontaneity', where I save all photographs of my spontaneous adventures with family and friends.
So, what made these past few months from all the rest? Why am I now frantically obsessed with wanting to plan my life and yet freaking out when I couldn't come up with a concrete one? Why is this blind spot appearing now? I thought about it for a long time and finally, I've got an answer.
Like many people, I too, planned this year to be a memorable, romantic, life-changing, and a big year for me and the people around me. There were schedules plotted in each month and I couldn't stay calm about it. It's just that exciting!
However, to my horror and in the beginning, denial, something massive crashed into our lives that disrupted our plans and shattered a huge portion of our hopes, leaving us breathless, exhausted, and lost. Yes, I'm talking about the pandemic.
Suddenly, I couldn't see where I was heading. All I could see in front of me was this thick fog of uncertainties and taking a step forward seemed impossible, scary, and dangerous. So, I remained where I was, trembling with fear.
Gradually, my blind spots started sprouting. My impatience grew more intensely. At the same time, I eased into feeling still and stagnant. Like a couch potato! Of course, I wasn't able to find the best way to express this to everyone I know. I just sat with my blind spots and emotions until I understood them by heart.
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